Blog posts don’t all have to be super insightful, right? Here is one of those small-joys post.
I discovered Magie today. Magie is a song by the German artist Nena.
I don’t understand anything she’s saying but the song really struck a chord with me. It’s one of those things that songs can do for you. I can’t explain it but a good song lets you feel deeper than you can feel otherwise. A good song can help you run the last half mile of your run or inspire you to go out and make today super productive; or just give you goosebumps.
Because I’ve been listening to songs by Nena (and other German artists thanks to Spotify’s recommendation engine), I’ve been fascinated by Germany. Hopefully I can visit sometime soon! Ok bye.
Advice is a big part of social interaction with other humans. Sometimes you’re looking for advice and sometimes people just give it to you anyway. Parents have to instruct their kids from an early age in the ways of the world and it becomes a habit for them to give their children advice as they grow up and even when they’re older. Many a times people get advice from friends. Knowing how to sift through the advice and imbibe all the good stuff is something I really value. Society works largely on recommendations from others – shopping reviews, movie ratings, what place to eat at, what college to go to and so on. But when it comes to more personal things, heeding advice gets harder.
A big part of acting on someone’s advice is being able to socially identify yourself with it. For example, say I have a friend who is a gym buff. He tells me to start gymming, and follows it with a very sensible explanation of how excercise is helpful and so on; I’m only inclined to follow his advice if I am ok to take up somebody else’s passion(his) and start parading socially that it is also mine. My relationship with this person also matters because I am now indebted to him for convincing me to join the gym so I might not be able to fully “own” this passion with him out “owning” me.
This is obviously not the case for a large number of people who would take up their friend’s advice to join the gym. This happens because he/she is open minded and motivated enough to try something new in the first place. Another reason that people listen to other people is social inclusion. “Let me join the drama club cause thats what all the cool kids are doing” or “Let me try alcohol cause everyone else has”. It’s also important to respect the person giving you the advice and publicly regard them as more knowledgeable on that matter. This is tough to do with some parents because of obvious parent-child dynamics where the child is always on rebel-against-everything-even-if-it-makes-sense mode.
This post is pretty rough around the edges and it feels disorganized but hey, atleast I now identify myself as a writer.
Alexa what’s the date today?
“Today is Sunday, September 24th”
I’ve been shunning writing because of the effort it takes to actually put my thoughts down on paper. It’s really slow compared to actually just thinking those thoughts or even talking to people about it. But I realized that most of the opinions or ideas in my head never graduate to “Level 2”. By this I mean, if I have an initial instinctive theory about something, I acknowledge that and am happy with my learning but I am not able to do anything useful with it or get deeper into that topic.
I am reminded about Dumbledore’s Pensieve. He had so many thoughts and memories in his head that at times he had to store it somewhere so he can examine it better. I’m hoping I can do the same with this blog.
I want to record my experiences so I can look back and remember them with more detail. I also want to record my outlook on life. I’m expecting most of my blog posts to be about experiences or opinions 🙂